No more denying, no more lying and no more dodging, you have officially been busted. The house of cards has come crashing in… are you ready for what’s next? The whirl wind of drama that is about to unfold could only be comparable to a tornado of a shit storm! The cheated on is about to hit you with every bit of her emotional arsenal. Bomb… “What I’m not good enough?” Bomb… “I thought you loved me!” Bomb… “How could you do this to me?” Bomb… “How would you like it if I do it to you, maybe with one of your buddies?” You see she will use pulling your heart strings with tears and guilt and mess with your head with intellect and graphic imagery. Now your picturing her with one of your buddies and your scrambling to say what ever she wants to hear, to avoid that from becoming reality. The emotional roller coaster will be so extreme it’s almost like she is on fire and you will do anything to put her out.
What you need is a clear picture of what you would want to happen if you get busted way before you ever get caught! I’m saying before you ever do the deed be prepared with an outlook of what you want your future to be like with your current girl. If your feeling trapped or suffocated but you don’t know how to end it, getting caught cheating could be the best scenario for you. That is if you keep your goal in mind when she is bombarding you with the mental mind F&*!k, because you could end up getting even more trapped in an even worse relationship!
If you got caught but you want to keep your relationship and give up the nookie on the side, then you are going to have to suck it up and accept responsibility for your indiscretions. The easiest and quickest way to make her feel like you actually do care about saving the relationship is to suggest couples counseling. Yeah I know most guys would rather go to the ballet then to a shrink, but she will be all about it and by you suggesting it and volunteering to go she will think you are serious about her and your relationship. Let the professionals help put the pieces back together and in the mean time kiss ass! Lots of ass!
